agreements
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Before confirming any reservation, I require:
A photo of your Valid Government ID such as a Driver’s License or Passport. The photo should show your full legal name, picture and age clearly (you can blur the license/passport number and address if you wish) .
Employment Verification (Links to verify occupation, such as LinkedIn or work website with your bio and image).
These will both be required when completing the booking form.
Kindly note, I do not accept references as part of my screening process.
I am happy to sign an NDA for celebrity clients.
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A 50% deposit is required for all travel bookings ; 20% deposit is required for all local bookings.
Deposits can be made via:
Cash App: $AlexxxWilde
Cash Deposits: Visa or Amazon Pre-paid Gift Cards may be purchased with cash at any convenience or big box store and the code on the back may be sent to Me.
Your appointment will not be secured on My calendar until the deposit is received.
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Your appreciation and support means the world to me. I hope to convey that to you during our time together. The directions below are meant to make this process as smooth and comfortable as possible. Thank you for taking the time to read and respect my protocol.
The remaining balance of your donation must be presented promptly upon arrival.
Place it down on the dresser or other surface in an unsealed envelope or greeting card (I always keep the greeting cards)
Then excuse yourself to the bathroom to wash your hands (mandatory) while I put it away.
You may also pay the remainder of your donation via payment app when you arrive. For cash, large bills are preferred.
That's it! Now the fun starts.
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I require a minimum 48 hours notice for all cancellations (7 days for FMTY). With appropriate notice, your deposit can be applied to a rescheduled booking within the next 3 months.
For cancellations within the 48 hour window, I require a 50% cancellation fee.
For FMTY cancelled within the 7 day window, your deposit will be forfeit.
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Incall sessions (when I host) will take place at comfortable hotels/airbnbs in the area.
I'll arrive 15mins early to check-in and set up. I'll email you the room number and instructions to find it easily. Wait in your vehicle until the time of our appointment.
I'll leave the door cracked so you can let yourself into the room without knocking.
For Outcall sessions (when you host) please give detailed instructions on how I should park and enter the building.
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I accept donations for my time and companionship only. Anything beyond that is between two consenting adults. Let’s practice sharing and asking for what we desire!
Etiquette
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I practice excellent hygiene and expect you to do the same. As part of our time together, I will invite you to refresh and bathe and will have everything you need ready to do so.
I support whatever your preferences may be for your own body hair; Just please ensure you are smooth or softly furry. Prickles hurt me.
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Thoroughly review My website before contacting Me. Doing so will demonstrate a level of respect and maturity that is extremely attractive.
I only communicate via email for the sake of My mental heath.
My inbox is strictly reserved for the booking. This means no chit chat, asking me how my day is going, wishing Me happy holidays, sending Me explicit content, etc.
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Safety is of the utmost importance to Me. I make sure to go over the risks of each activity before engaging in it with My submissive. I also take any health conditions and physical injuries into consideration when planning and executing each scene.
Consent is mandatory in BDSM. If there isn’t clear, ongoing consent then that’s a red flag! I have a conversation at the beginning of each session with My submissive to identify hard limits and gauge the areas of greater interest. Even when partaking in edge play such as Consensual Non-Consent (CNC), clear consent is still mandatory throughout the scene.
I prefer using the “Green-Yellow-Red” system for communicating consent during a session.
”Green” means “I love this, keep going”
“Yellow” means “You’re reaching my limit and I need you to slow down, but stay engaged in the scene/.”
“Red” means “Stop what you’re doing and check in.” The scene may be over after this or continue on, based on the checkin conversation we have. Red can be used to stop for any reason - physically, emotionally or mentally.
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I require a minimum 48 hours notice for all cancellations (7 days for FMTY). With appropriate notice, your deposit can be applied to a rescheduled booking within the next 3 months.
For cancellations within the 48 hour window, I require a 50% cancellation fee.
For FMTY cancelled within the 7 day window, your deposit will be forfeit.
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If this is your first time reaching out for professional companionship or BDSM services, congratulations!
You’ve already proven to have more courage than most.
The first step is always the hardest and it’s totally normal to feel nervous.
My advice for first-timers centers around basic self-care.
-Make sure you’re hydrated, nourished, and well-rested.
-Avoid intoxicating substances leading up to your session.
-Do some research about your desired activities so you have an idea of what to expect
-If you anticipate anal play in your session, make sure to prepare properly.
-Try to schedule plenty of time to rest and process your experience after the session.
A little preparation goes a long way towards having a great first experience!
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Sobriety is mandatory both before and during in-person BDSM sessions.
This includes marijuana, alcohol, poppers, and other intoxicating substances.
This policy is set purely with safety in mind.
It does not intend to discriminate against people who use intoxicating substances.
For companionship dinner dates, alcohol in moderation is allowed (such as a glass or two of wine at dinner), but ANY signs of intoxication will give me the right to refuse and cancel our time together without a refund.